Maybe you do not want to hear that in order to find the right person God has for you, all you simply need to do is to wait on him. There is a saying that has been coined from the solution-focused model of counseling. It states, "If it's not working, try something else."In this same vein, I submit that if dating has left you emotionally bankrupt with a broken heart and feelings of discouragement, consider an alternative. Give up dating.